wipeout frame selection

i have a question about wipeouts.  I have just upgraded to acad 2014 from 2011.  Now in 2014, I can turn off wipeout frames, but if my mouse crosses over one, it highlights so I can select it.  How do i turn that off?  I don't want the frame to highlight unless i select it. thanks

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